We had learned about Rylee's condition, Congenital Diaphragmatic Hernia (CDH), while I was 21 weeks pregnant and were told we would be sent to London for her medical care, two hours from our home in Essex. Devastated to learn that our little girl had this illness, we went from joy to fear and worry. With our son Jacob, we knew driving back and forth to London was out of the question, however, we needed to stay close to our baby...
From the beginning, we knew that Rylee's heart, liver, stomach, and intestines were underdeveloped and in the wrong place. A hole in her diaphragm had caused her organs to move, but it was later discovered she didn't have a diaphragm at all. She was our little hero from the moment she entered the world, and while the weeks ahead were far from easy for her it was just as difficult to watch as her parents. She wasn’t getting enough oxygen in her blood so she had pulmonary hypertension and her heart vessels were very tight; she was hooked up to nitric oxide, oxygen, and a paralyzing drug to keep her from moving; and she underwent 3 surgeries and 4 blood transfusions while having 2 seizures from all the treatments and tests.
We knew from the start that her treatment could be anywhere from a few weeks to months. When we started researching about Ronald McDonald House (RMH) London, and how much it helped so many families, the fear of "how will we do this?" went away. It became our "home-away-from-home", just steps away from Rylee's hospital room, when we received our private bedroom at RMHC-SWO - we were excited and relieved!
For 117 days it was a struggle of ups and downs full of stress and worry. The House simply allowed us to step away from those worries, even if it was for a moment. Jacob loves RMH and still talks about, and misses, “The Lego and toys!” Even though we were there for a scary reason, having the House and staff to come home to every night was a blessing! Today, she has a synthetic diaphragm and is doing great back home, but we can't change the fact her organs could re-herniate at any time. If that happens we find comfort in knowing RMH London will be there to keep us close once again.
For Rylee's first birthday we collected donations for the House. We hope the money raised will help other families, just like ours, when they need medical care in London or Windsor for their seriously ill children.
Our three programs, RMH London, RMH Windsor and the RM Family Room London were able to provide supportive services to 4,517 families with sick kids.
RMHC-SWO provided 15,990 nights of comfort to families keeping them close to their child’s specialized medical care.
Each night a family stays close at RMH it is estimated they save $183 on accommodations, meals and other home comforts.
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